She's a 10 But: 118 Questions for Friends to Spice Up Your Party

January 22, 2025 Friends playing the She's a 10 but game

We all have that friend group where simple chats turn into endless debates about whether a certain red flag is a dealbreaker or not. Guess what? The "She's a 10 but" game has become the ultimate tool to test everyone's boundaries. Whether you're chilling on a patio or in the middle of a party that just won't end, these questions are guaranteed to spark some heat.

The goal here? Forget the "dating" aspect for a second and focus on friendships, weird habits, and those little daily details that make us adore (or want to strangle) our besties. Honestly, get ready for some unhinged answers.

Daily Life Quirks

Here, we’re getting into the real stuff. The little habits, the questionable tastes, and everything that makes a person charming (or annoying) on a day-to-day basis.

It's a 10 but they listen to true crime podcasts to fall asleep
It's an 8 but they can't read a map on Google Maps
It's a 10 but they leave their coffee cups everywhere
It's a 5 but they always have the best snacks to offer
It's a 9 but they put ice cubes in their red wine
It's a 10 but they are afraid of escalators
It's a 7 but they know the lyrics to every song from the 2000s
It's a 10 but they never finish their water bottles
It's a 4 but they share their streaming passwords with you
It's a 10 but they only wear gym clothes, even to weddings
It's a 6 but they cook the best lasagna in the world
It's a 10 but they fall asleep five minutes into a movie
It's an 8 but they have a laugh so loud you can hear it down the street
It's a 10 but they still believe pro wrestling is 100% real
It's a 3 but they lend you their car whenever you need it
It's a 10 but they've never eaten a taco in their life
It's a 9 but they send 8-minute long voice notes
It's a 10 but they wear sunglasses when it's raining
It's a 5 but they always win at every board game
It's a 10 but they say "literally" at the start of every sentence
It's a 7 but they always have an iPhone charger on them
It's a 10 but they hate cheese (even on pizza)
It's an 8 but they get lost in their own neighborhood
It's a 10 but they call their cat "Sir" or "Madam"
It's a 4 but their parents have a huge pool
It's a 10 but they don't know how to parallel park
It's a 9 but they have a very embarrassing fridge magnet collection
It's a 10 but they chew on their pens until they're destroyed
It's a 6 but they always get you into the club for free
It's a 10 but they still have an active Facebook account and "poke" people
It's an 8 but they are allergic to gluten (and you love Italian food)
It's a 10 but they drum their fingers on the table constantly
It's a 5 but they know all the best thrift stores in the area
It's a 10 but they don't understand why people like tropical vacations
It's a 9 but they wear mismatched socks on purpose
It's a 10 but they think tap water tastes like iron
It's a 7 but they fix your computer in two seconds
It's a 10 but they put ketchup on their steak
It's a 4 but they have keys to a ski lodge
It's a 10 but they are afraid of clowns

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Personality and Little Secrets

Here's the deal: this is where it gets interesting. We scratch beneath the surface to see if the friendship holds up despite character quirks. Let me explain: sometimes, a 2 becomes a 9 just because of one rare quality.

It's a 10 but they are always at least 20 minutes late
It's an 8 but they always have to have the last word in a debate
It's a 10 but they sulk when they lose at cards
It's a 3 but they are the only person you can tell everything to
It's a 10 but they repeat secrets told to them "in confidence"
It's a 7 but they cry watching baby animal videos
It's a 10 but they never offer to buy a round of drinks
It's a 9 but they are super superstitious
It's a 10 but they constantly judge your music taste
It's a 5 but they would defend you against anyone
It's a 10 but they talk to pigeons in the street
It's an 8 but they are convinced they're a misunderstood genius
It's a 10 but they never answer the phone (text only)
It's a 6 but they always have the best party stories
It's a 10 but they brag about never watching TV
It's a 9 but they can't keep a plant alive for more than a week
It's a 10 but they always text "WYD?" the second you don't reply
It's a 4 but they have dark humor that makes you die laughing
It's a 10 but they can't stand people touching their food
It's a 7 but they know gossip about people you don't even know
It's a 10 but they correct your grammar while you're speaking
It's an 8 but they always want to organize hikes on Sunday mornings
It's a 10 but they are terrified of spiders (even the tiny ones)
It's a 2 but they found you your current job
It's a 10 but they tell the same story every time they have a drink
It's a 9 but they are convinced aliens are already among us
It's a 10 but they can't say "no" to anyone
It's a 5 but they always have a plan to go out, even on a Tuesday
It's a 10 but they send heart emojis to everyone
It's an 8 but they get stressed as soon as there are more than four people in a room
It's a 10 but they never let you finish your sentences
It's a 4 but they are the best at cheering you up
It's a 10 but they take 50 photos of their food before eating
It's a 7 but they have a gift for finding lost objects
It's a 10 but they hate being surprised
It's a 9 but they want to take group selfies all the time
It's a 10 but they are incapable of being serious for more than two seconds
It's a 6 but they are incredibly calm in crisis situations
It's a 10 but they forget people's names two seconds after meeting them
It's a 3 but they give you gifts for no particular reason

Tastes, Colors (and Style)

But watch out, we're entering the slippery slope of aesthetic choices. Sometimes it works, sometimes it's a disaster. And that's why it's important to talk about it, right?

It's a 10 but they wear fur-lined Crocs
It's an 8 but they only watch black and white movies
It's a 10 but they have a mullet (and they own it)
It's a 5 but their apartment looks like it's from a magazine
It's a 10 but they wear way too much cologne/perfume
It's a 7 but they wear incredible vintage clothes
It's a 10 but they hate sneakers
It's a 9 but they have a tattoo of a rival sports team on their arm
It's a 10 but they think floral shirts are the peak of elegance
It's a 4 but they draw really well
It's a 10 but they wear a beanie even in the middle of July
It's an 8 but they only drink weird vegetable juices
It's a 10 but they have a phone case with bunny ears
It's a 6 but they have an "old money" style even though they're a student
It's a 10 but they put glitter on their face for no reason
It's a 9 but they hate jeans and only wear linen pants
It's a 10 but they still rock the 2008 side-swept bangs
It's a 5 but they always give fashion advice that actually works
It's a 10 but they wear fake glasses just for the style
It's a 7 but they are a hardcore sneakerhead
It's a 10 but they think loud car modifications are an art form
It's an 8 but they dress only in black, even in summer
It's a 10 but they swear by hiking sandals
It's a 3 but they have perfect skin without any effort
It's a 10 but their wisdom teeth grew in crooked
It's a 9 but they refuse to wear brand name clothes
It's a 10 but they wear mascara to the beach
It's a 6 but they have perfect stubble all the time
It's a 10 but they have an eyebrow piercing
It's a 4 but they have a smile that melts anyone
It's a 10 but they wear leather gloves in winter like a spy movie villain
It's an 8 but they have neon blue hair
It's a 10 but they never go out without their fanny pack worn across their chest
It's a 5 but they have an incredible eye color
It's a 10 but they wear rings on every finger
It's a 9 but they always have a comb in their back pocket
It's a 10 but they have bleached eyebrows
It's a 7 but their style is so unique you notice them everywhere

So, what's the final verdict?

Let's be real, after a hundred questions, you realize that nobody is truly a pure 10. But that's exactly what makes it funny. Friendship is also about accepting that your buddy is a 10 but eats kiwis with the skin on or is incapable of reading a map.

If you loved this list and want even more to switch things up (like spicier, harder, or couples versions), don't hesitate to check out our ultimate guide with 360 questions for the She's a 10 but game. You'll find enough there to keep you going until the end of the night, promise.

On that note, have a great game and try not to fight too much over the socks-and-sandals debate!