158 Best 'Put a Finger Down Questions' to party
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Hey party people! đ If youâre looking for a game thatâll have your squad spilling tea, laughing till you cry, or side-eyeing each other hard, "Put a Finger Down" is your new go-to. The rules? Super simple: Everyone holds up 10 fingers. Take turns asking questions starting with "Put a finger down if...", if the statement applies to you, drop a finger. Last person with fingers up wins (or loses, depending on how wild the confessions get đ).
It's a bit like the younger brother of Never Have I Ever.
Weâve cooked up 158 questions that range from silly to spicy and deep. Whether youâre vibing with your ride-or-dies or breaking the ice with newbies, this list has you covered. Letâs get into it!
đą Soft Launch: Chill & Relatable
Perfect for warming up the crowd or playing with your grandma (no cap).
- Put a finger down if youâve ever pretended to text someone to avoid eye contact.
- Put a finger down if youâve worn socks with sandals⌠unironically.
- Put a finger down if youâve laughed at a joke you didnât get.
- Put a finger down if youâve Googled âhow to fold a fitted sheet.â
- Put a finger down if youâve ever cried during a kidsâ movie (Toy Story 3, we see you).
- Put a finger down if youâve accidentally liked someoneâs Instagram post from 2017.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to charge your phone at 1%⌠with no charger plugged in.
- Put a finger down if youâve ghosted someone after a vibrant DM conversation.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever rehearsed a convo in the shower.
- Put a finger down if youâve used subtitles even though you speak the language.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever sent a text to the wrong person.
- Put a finger down if youâve worn pajamas all day.
- Put a finger down if youâve forgotten a close friendâs birthday.
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to be on a call to avoid talking.
- Put a finger down if youâve binge-watched a TV show in one day.
- Put a finger down if youâve scrolled past a workout video and felt guilty.
- Put a finger down if youâve ordered food delivery when the kitchen was full.
- Put a finger down if youâve laughed alone at a meme.
- Put a finger down if youâve taken a selfie and deleted it immediately.
- Put a finger down if youâve talked to your pet like a person.
- Put a finger down if youâve Googled a word to make sure youâre using it right.
- Put a finger down if youâve had a playlist for shower singing.
- Put a finger down if youâve walked into a room and forgot why.
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to know a song you donât.
- Put a finger down if youâve tried to fix something and made it worse.
- Put a finger down if youâve used emojis to avoid awkward texts.
- Put a finger down if youâve stayed up late just to finish a series.
- Put a finger down if youâve saved memes to send later.
- Put a finger down if youâve argued with a GPS.
- Put a finger down if youâve sung a song wrong and found out later.
- Put a finger down if youâve double-checked if the door was locked after leaving.
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to be asleep to avoid talking.
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đĽ Hot & Spicy: Turn Up the Heat
For when the group chat energy is chaotic and yâall need drama.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever kissed someone you shouldnât have.
- Put a finger down if youâve slid into a crushâs DMs⌠then immediately deleted it.
- Put a finger down if youâve had a dating app profile your friends donât know about.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied about your age to get into a club.
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to be drunk to say something risky.
- Put a finger down if youâve dated two people who were friends. At the same time.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been caught in a lie by your parents.
- Put a finger down if youâve had a âwork spouseâ (and it got⌠complicated).
- Put a finger down if youâve ever flirted for a free drink.
- Put a finger down if youâve screenshot someoneâs Snapchat⌠on purpose.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a secret relationship.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever cheated in a game.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied about your job to impress someone.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a crush on a teacher/professor.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever pretended to be single when you werenât.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever snooped through someoneâs phone.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a one-night stand.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever faked being sick to avoid plans.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend with benefits.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied about your age online.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever kissed someone on a dare.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever regretted a tattoo.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a crush on a friendâs ex.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been the other person in a relationship.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied about your relationship status.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been caught checking someone out.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a secret social media account.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever ghosted someone after a date.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a crush on a coworker.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a crush on a friendâs partner.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever sent a risky text while drunk.
đ Deep Dive: Get Vulnerable
For late-night convos when the vibes are ~existential~.
- Put a finger down if youâve stayed in a relationship just because it was comfortable.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt like youâre failing at adulthood.
- Put a finger down if youâve cut someone off and regretted it later.
- Put a finger down if youâve cried in public this year.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever faked confidence to hide insecurity.
- Put a finger down if youâve stayed friends with someone you secretly dislike.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever questioned your life choices at 3 a.m.
- Put a finger down if youâve prioritized work over your mental health.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever apologized just to keep the peace.
- Put a finger down if youâve felt lonely in a room full of people.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt like an imposter in your job.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever stayed silent when you should have spoken up.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever questioned your purpose in life.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt like youâre not good enough.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever sacrificed your happiness for others.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt misunderstood by family.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever struggled with self-love.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever envied a friendâs success.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever hidden your true feelings to avoid conflict.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt stuck in a routine.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever doubted your career choice.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt guilty for saying no.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever feared being alone forever.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever regretted not taking a risk.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt like youâre faking adulthood.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever cried over something small from stress.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt judged for your life choices.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever questioned your friendships.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt pressure to meet societal expectations.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt lost in your 20s/30s.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt like youâre not living up to your potential.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever struggled with asking for help.
đŻâď¸ Friendship Fire: Besties Edition
Test how well your squad really knows each other.
- Put a finger down if youâve covered for a friendâs lie.
- Put a finger down if youâve borrowed clothes from a friend⌠and never returned them.
- Put a finger down if youâve had a friendship breakup.
- Put a finger down if youâve low-key judged a friendâs partner.
- Put a finger down if youâve accidentally spilled a friendâs secret.
- Put a finger down if youâve ghosted a friend for over a week.
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to like a friendâs cooking.
- Put a finger down if youâve memorized your bestieâs coffee order.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a crush on a friendâs sibling.
- Put a finger down if youâve lied about why you were late to hang out.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied to a friend to protect their feelings.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been jealous of a friendâs other friend.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever borrowed money and forgot to pay back.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend crash at your place uninvited.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend set you up on a bad date.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever kept a secret that was hard to hold.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever compared yourself to a friend.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend copy your style.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been the third wheel in a friendâs date.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever forgotten a friendâs important event.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend bail on you last minute.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been competitive with a friend.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend you canât trust anymore.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been in a group chat you hate.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever lied about liking a friendâs haircut.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend whoâs a bad influence.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt replaced by a friendâs new partner.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had to mediate a friendâs fight.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever been embarrassed by a friend in public.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend who never pays their share.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever felt taken for granted by a friend.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever had a friend whoâs always late.
đ Wild Card: Random Chaos
Because why not?
- Put a finger down if youâve ever eaten food off the floor (5-second rule counts!).
- Put a finger down if youâve pretended to know a celebrityâs name⌠when you didnât.
- Put a finger down if youâve laughed during a serious moment.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to speak in a fake accent⌠for fun.
- Put a finger down if youâve snorted while laughing and played it off.
- Put a finger down if youâve used a filter to look drastically different.
- Put a finger down if youâve sung in the shower⌠and your roommate heard it.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever blamed technology for your own mistake.
- Put a finger down if youâve danced like nobodyâs watching⌠and someone was.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever googled âam I allergic to water?â
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to DIY something and failed.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever believed a ridiculous conspiracy theory.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to break a world record.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever pretended to be a tourist in your own city.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever talked to a strangerâs pet.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever worn an outfit inside out all day.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to speak to someone in a foreign language you donât know.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever danced in the supermarket aisle.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever made a prank call as a kid.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever believed your horoscope was spot-on.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to start a viral trend.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever gotten lost following GPS.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever reenacted a movie scene alone.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever pretended to be sick for attention.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to cook without a recipe and failed.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever sung karaoke terribly on purpose.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever worn a costume on a non-Halloween day.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever convinced someone of a fake fact.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever tried to do a TikTok dance in public.
- Put a finger down if youâve ever laughed so hard you couldnât breathe.
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