Put a Finger Down: 100+ Questions for Couples

April 28, 2025 Couple playing the Put a Finger Down game

You know the "Put a Finger Down" game. It's simple, it's fun, and it gets things going. But guess what? It's also an awesome game to play just the two of you, with your partner! Whether you've been together for two weeks or two years, it's a cool, laid-back way to start conversations, share funny memories, test how well you really know each other, or even reveal a few secret habits.

No pressure, just fun and connection. It's the perfect thing for a quiet night in, a long car ride, or even during a picnic. The goal? Laugh together, strengthen your bond, and maybe even spark some friendly debates about who hogs the covers the most!

Ready to put your duo to the test? Let's go!

Over 100 "Put a Finger Down" Questions for Your Couple

Put a finger down if you've ever stolen food off their plate without asking.
Put a finger down if you've ever "borrowed" one of their hoodies/t-shirts and kept it a bit too long (or forever).
Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be asleep to avoid a conversation (or something else...).
Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten an important date (anniversary, Valentine's Day...). Oops.
Put a finger down if you've ever watched an episode of your shared show without them. (The ultimate betrayal!)
Put a finger down if you know their phone password (with or without permission).
Put a finger down if you've ever criticized their driving (even just in your head).
Put a finger down if you've ever purposely left something out to see if they would pick it up.
Put a finger down if you've ever won an argument with totally illogical points but a lot of stubbornness.
Put a finger down if you've ever stalked one of their exes on social media. (Admit it!)
Put a finger down if you've ever been slightly embarrassed by something they said or did in public.
Put a finger down if you've ever lied about the price of something you bought.
Put a finger down if you give them a silly (but cute) nickname when you're alone.
Put a finger down if you're the one who hogs the covers at night.
Put a finger down if you find one of their little flaws annoying but also super endearing.
Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to love a dish they cooked (with love, but still...).
Put a finger down if you've ever cried during a movie and they (gently) made fun of you.
Put a finger down if you've ever secretly used their toothbrush because you forgot yours.
Put a finger down if you've ever imagined your future together (the house, trips, the cat/dog...).
Put a finger down if you secretly think you're the funnier one in the relationship.
Put a finger down if you've ever texted them while you were in the same room.
Put a finger down if you know their favorite coffee/drink order by heart.
Put a finger down if you've ever finished their sentences.
Put a finger down if you've ever been jealous for no good reason.
Put a finger down if you've ever planned a real surprise that truly touched them.
Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to like one of their favorite bands/movies.
Put a finger down if you've ever complained because they were taking up too much space in bed.
Put a finger down if you sneakily use their toiletries (shampoo, lotion...).
Put a finger down if you've ever cancelled plans just to stay in together.
Put a finger down if you've ever read one of their texts over their shoulder (naughty!).
Put a finger down if you remember exactly what they were wearing on your first date.
Put a finger down if you've ever laughed at one of their bad jokes just to make them happy.
Put a finger down if you've ever started using a word or phrase they use all the time.
Put a finger down if you've ever taken a picture of them sleeping (because it was too cute).
Put a finger down if you've ever belted out songs together in the car.
Put a finger down if you think they look even better in the morning (even with bed head).
Put a finger down if you've ever had a serious conversation about the future of your relationship.
Put a finger down if you've ever been incredibly proud of them.
Put a finger down if you've ever shared a toothbrush (on vacation, for example).
Put a finger down if you've ever had an uncontrollable laughing fit together.
Put a finger down if you know the name of their childhood best friend.
Put a finger down if you've ever defended your partner to someone else.
Put a finger down if you've ever planned a surprise trip or getaway.
Put a finger down if you've ever hated one of their gifts but pretended to love it.
Put a finger down if you know their favorite meal (and maybe you know how to cook it?).
Put a finger down if you've ever spent a whole evening just talking and putting the world to rights.
Put a finger down if you've ever given them a massage without them asking.
Put a finger down if you've ever been scared of losing them.
Put a finger down if you've ever watched a rom-com together (even if it's not your thing).
Put a finger down if you've ever found one of their hairs on your clothes and it made you smile.
Put a finger down if you've ever made them breakfast in bed.
Put a finger down if you've ever been their +1 to an event where you didn't know anyone.
Put a finger down if you've ever been moved by a gesture they made for you.
Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be interested in one of their hobbies.
Put a finger down if you have an inside joke that nobody else gets.
Put a finger down if you've ever put up with their family/friends just to make them happy.
Put a finger down if you've ever thought, "How did I get so lucky?".
Put a finger down if you've ever stolen the last piece of something (chocolate, pizza...).
Put a finger down if you've ended up liking something (a show, music, activity) because of them.
Put a finger down if you've ever had an argument about "where should we eat tonight?".
Put a finger down if you've ever left them a sweet little note somewhere.
Put a finger down if you've ever been their personal Instagram photographer.
Put a finger down if you've ever been turned on by them at an inappropriate time.
Put a finger down if you've ever done something completely crazy out of love (or just to impress them).
Put a finger down if you find them sexy even when they're focused on something totally mundane.
Put a finger down if you've ever been sick and they took amazing care of you.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a conversation about "how many kids you want" (even jokingly).
Put a finger down if you know the one thing that always makes them laugh.
Put a finger down if you've ever spent ages choosing their birthday present.
Put a finger down if you have a little habit that annoys them (and vice-versa).
Put a finger down if you've ever apologized even when you thought you were right, just to make peace.
Put a finger down if you've ever shared a really intimate secret with them.
Put a finger down if you have a ridiculous dance you only do together.
Put a finger down if you've ever been their partner for a board game or video game.
Put a finger down if you've ever felt a little pang of jealousy seeing them talk to someone else attractive.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a long phone call or video chat late at night.
Put a finger down if you've ever been surprised by their strength or sensitivity.
Put a finger down if you love their hugs more than anything.
Put a finger down if you've ever made an effort with your outfit just to impress them.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a heated debate about tidying or cleaning.
Put a finger down if you've ever been their plus-one at a wedding.
Put a finger down if you know the thing that can instantly comfort them.
Put a finger down if you said "I love you" first.
Put a finger down if you've ever dreamed about them.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a moment of silent connection where you understood each other without words.
Put a finger down if you've ever been impressed by their intelligence or knowledge.
Put a finger down if you've ever held their hand in public just because you felt like it.
Put a finger down if you've ever discussed your "love languages."
Put a finger down if you've ever laughed until you cried together.
Put a finger down if you've ever wanted to proudly introduce them to everyone.
Put a finger down if you've ever shared earbuds to listen to music.
Put a finger down if you've ever planned a special date night.
Put a finger down if you feel completely yourself when you're with them.
Put a finger down if you've ever worried about them.
Put a finger down if you've ever made a significant compromise for the relationship.
Put a finger down if you've ever found the way they sleep endearing.
Put a finger down if you think they make you a better person.
Put a finger down if you've ever talked about your life goals together.
Put a finger down if you imagine growing old by their side.
Put a finger down if you're happy in your relationship right now.
Put a finger down if you've ever felt turned on just reading these questions!
Put a finger down if you think playing this game was a good idea!

More Than Just a Game, a Moment Together

So, how many fingers down for each of you? 😉 The score doesn't really matter; the main thing is that you shared this moment. You probably laughed, maybe learned a thing or two, or just confirmed how connected you are. That's the magic of the couples' version of "Put a Finger Down"!

Keep this list handy for your next cozy night in. It's a simple, fun way to keep nurturing your connection.

And if you want to mix things up or play with friends, don't forget there are loads of other types of questions! Funny ones, daring ones, more general ones... We've gathered them all for you.

Find all the ideas and categories in our complete "Put a Finger Down" guide

Keep having fun and taking care of your partnership!