Put a Finger Down: 100+ HOT Questions for Adults 🌶️

April 28, 2025 Friends playing the HOT Put a Finger Down game

Alright, okay, we've had fun with the lighthearted questions, but sometimes you want to spice things up a bit, right? The "Put a Finger Down" game is perfect for that too. When the vibe is right, you're with trusted friends or your +1, it might be time to pull out the questions that are a little more... daring. The ones that make you blush, reveal naughty little secrets, or bring up experiences you wouldn't normally admit to.

Heads up, important disclaimer before we start: These questions are more personal, more intimate. The goal is ALWAYS to have fun and a good time, never to make anyone uncomfortable. Make sure everyone in the group is 100% on board and comfortable with these kinds of questions. If someone doesn't want to answer or put a finger down for a question, that's absolutely their right! Skip the question, move on, and keep the mood positive. Trust and respect are the foundation, okay?

Alright, if everyone's on the same page, here's something to fuel the discussions and confessions...

Over 100 "Put a Finger Down" Questions to Turn Up the Heat 🔥

Put a finger down if you've ever kissed someone on the first date/night you met.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a one-night stand.
Put a finger down if you've ever used a dating app just for a hookup.
Put a finger down if you've ever fantasized about someone in this room. (Ooh boy!)
Put a finger down if you've ever sent a sext (photo or message).
Put a finger down if you've ever received an unsolicited sext.
Put a finger down if you've ever been caught in the act.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in a public or unusual place.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a regular "friend with benefits."
Put a finger down if you've ever faked an orgasm.
Put a finger down if you've ever regretted sleeping with someone.
Put a finger down if you've ever lied about your body count.
Put a finger down if you've ever orgasmed just from kissing someone.
Put a finger down if you've ever kissed more than one person in the same night.
Put a finger down if you've ever watched porn.
Put a finger down if you've ever watched porn with a partner.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a crush on a friend's partner. (Awkward silence...)
Put a finger down if you've ever dated two people at the same time (without them knowing).
Put a finger down if you've ever stalked an ex or crush a little too intensely.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a purely sexual relationship with a friend (sex friends).
Put a finger down if you own a sex toy.
Put a finger down if you've ever given a strip tease (even as a joke).
Put a finger down if you've ever been handcuffed (or tied up) in bed.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex with the lights on.
Put a finger down if you prefer giving or receiving oral sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a same-sex experience (even just a kiss).
Put a finger down if you've ever had a fantasy involving multiple partners.
Put a finger down if you've ever been scared to admit a fantasy to your partner.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a sex dream about someone you know (and found it hard to look them in the eye afterwards).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex more than three times in one night.
Put a finger down if you've ever been caught masturbating.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in a car.
Put a finger down if you've ever used food during foreplay or sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever fallen asleep right after sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a post-sex cuddle session that lasted over an hour.
Put a finger down if you've had both protected and unprotected sex (with the same or different people).
Put a finger down if you've ever tried a slightly acrobatic Kama Sutra position.
Put a finger down if you've ever burst out laughing during sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever said "I love you" during sex (and meant it... or not).
Put a finger down if you've ever hooked up with someone much older or much younger than you.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a visible mark (like a hickey) after a wild night and had to hide it.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in the shower or bath.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a fantasy about a fictional character.
Put a finger down if you've ever yelled out the wrong name during sex. (Ouch!)
Put a finger down if you've ever had the "are we exclusive?" talk with a partner.
Put a finger down if you've ever been turned on just by hearing someone's voice.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in your parents' house (whether they were home or not).
Put a finger down if you've ever been to a swingers' club or lifestyle party (even just out of curiosity).
Put a finger down if you've ever bought sexy lingerie just to feel good, not necessarily to show someone.
Put a finger down if you've ever had trouble getting hard or wet at the wrong moment.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex that lasted all night.
Put a finger down if you've been in a long-distance relationship with "hot" video chat moments.
Put a finger down if you've ever had multiple orgasms.
Put a finger down if you've ever wanted to have sex again immediately after finishing.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a fantasy involving someone in a position of authority (teacher, boss...).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex on a beach at night.
Put a finger down if you've ever made a sex tape (even if it's been deleted since!).
Put a finger down if you've ever tried light bondage (scarves, ties, etc.).
Put a finger down if you've ever talked about your fantasies with your partner.
Put a finger down if you've ever been attracted to someone who wasn't your usual "type" at all.
Put a finger down if you've ever had morning sex right after waking up.
Put a finger down if you've ever used a lame excuse to go meet someone for a hookup.
Put a finger down if you've ever role-played in bed (nurse, student, etc.).
Put a finger down if you've ever had an experience with more than two people at once (threesome or more).
Put a finger down if you've ever given or received a spanking (consensually, of course).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex somewhere you really risked getting caught.
Put a finger down if you've ever watched your partner sleep after sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a sexual relationship based mainly on physical attraction, without romantic feelings.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex while a little (or a lot) drunk.
Put a finger down if you've ever orgasmed so intensely you screamed (or cried).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex while listening to a specific playlist.
Put a finger down if you've ever been inside a sex shop (even without buying anything).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in a tent (camping, festival...).
Put a finger down if you've ever ended a relationship just because the sex wasn't good.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a very "hot" phone call or video chat.
Put a finger down if you've ever (gently!) bitten your partner during sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had "make-up sex" after an argument.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a fantasy involving a uniform (firefighter, police officer, nurse...).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex with someone you met on social media (Instagram, etc.).
Put a finger down if you've ever burst out laughing because of a body noise during an intimate moment.
Put a finger down if you've ever slept with a friend's roommate.
Put a finger down if you've tried sensual/erotic massage.
Put a finger down if you've ever been attracted to your best friend of the opposite (or same) sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a sexual experience where the non-verbal communication was super intense.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in a pool or hot tub.
Put a finger down if you've ever orgasmed in your sleep (wet dream).
Put a finger down if you've ever been turned on by a specific smell (perfume, body odor...).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex the same day you met someone.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a sexual experience where you felt particularly powerful or dominant.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a sexual experience where you felt particularly vulnerable or submissive (always consensual!).
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex in a bathroom (bar, plane, train...).
Put a finger down if you've ever discovered a new erogenous zone on yourself or your partner.
Put a finger down if you've ever had a "quickie".
Put a finger down if you've ever had very slow, sensual sex.
Put a finger down if you've ever had an intimate relationship with someone your friends hated.
Put a finger down if you've ever orgasmed just from mental or verbal stimulation.
Put a finger down if you've ever had an experience where the condom broke. (Panic moment!)
Put a finger down if you've ever used lube.
Put a finger down if you've ever had sex outdoors (forest, park at night...).
Put a finger down if you've ever had a conversation about consent and boundaries with a partner. (The most important one!)
Put a finger down if you think sexuality is an important part of a fulfilling relationship.
Put a finger down if you've ever felt yourself blush while reading some of these questions!

Keep the Game Fun and Respectful

Okay, the list is long and some questions can really lead to revelations! That's cool, but I'll say it again: respect and consent are paramount. No one should ever feel pressured to answer or share something they don't want to. The goal is to have fun together. If the mood gets weird or someone is uncomfortable, take a break, change the subject, or stop the game.

These "hot" questions can be great for breaking taboos, getting to know very close friends better, or spicing up a couple's night. But use them wisely and kindly!

So, did this list turn up the heat? It's just one facet of the "Put a Finger Down" game. There are plenty of other themes to fit any situation and group. Questions that are just funny, questions for couples, for teens, or even juicier questions to uncover surprising anecdotes...

To discover all the variations and get even more question ideas for every occasion, go check out our complete "Put a Finger Down" guide

Have fun, be respectful, and let the temperature rise... but always keep it lighthearted! 😉