Never Have I Ever: 100+ Hot Questions 😏

April 17, 2025

Okay, let's be real, the classic "Never Have I Ever" is already pretty cool for getting the vibe going and learning some fun facts about your friends. But let's admit it, sometimes you want to kick things up a notch, right? Enter that zone where the questions get a bit more… personal, where the best-kept secrets might just slip out.

If you landed on this article, you're probably looking for exactly that: the HOT version of "Never Have I Ever" questions – the kind that turns up the heat, makes cheeks blush, and triggers cascades of "oooohs!" and laughter (sometimes slightly nervous laughter, we get it). It's the perfect arsenal for a night with super close friends, for testing the limits with your +1, or simply if you're in a group that clearly isn't afraid to dive deep.

So, ready to play with fire? Settle in, grab something to sip on (it might help loosen tongues, just saying), and prepare for an avalanche of... let's say, memorable confessions. We've got over a hundred questions here, enough to keep you going all night!

The Rules? Still Simple, But the Stakes are Higher!

Quick reminder for newbies or anyone needing a refresh (our complete guide to "Never Have I Ever" is there if needed): It's easy peasy. Someone throws out a sentence starting with "Never have I ever..." followed by an action picked from our lists below (and careful, they've got some sting!).

• If you have done the action: Boom, put a finger down (if playing with 10 fingers) or take a small sip. Own it!
• If you have never done the action: Congrats, you're safe... for now. Enjoy the show as others confess!

The goal? Uncover hidden sides, share experiences (or lack thereof!), and most importantly, have a seriously good laugh.

The List That Turns Up the Heat: 100+ Dirty & Spicy Questions

Alright, enough chit-chat, let's get down to business. We've broken it down to make it clearer. Hang on tight!

Spicy Classics: Warming Things Up

Let's start with some essentials from the hot version of "Never Have I Ever." The ones that test the waters before diving deeper.

1. Never have I ever kissed someone I just met.
2. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
3. Never have I ever used a dating app (Tinder, Bumble, etc.).
4. Never have I ever French kissed more than two people in the same night.
5. Never have I ever regretted a kiss.
6. Never have I ever lied about my age to impress someone.
7. Never have I ever given out a fake number.
8. Never have I ever been on a blind date.
9. Never have I ever broken up with someone via text or social media.
10. Never have I ever obsessively stalked an ex online.
11. Never have I ever fantasized about my partner's best friend.
12. Never have I ever been in the "friend zone."
13. Never have I ever been the one to break someone out of the "friend zone."
14. Never have I ever openly hit on a waiter/waitress or bartender.
15. Never have I ever had a date end in under 30 minutes.
16. Never have I ever made the first move very directly.
17. Never have I ever had a dirty nickname given by a partner.
18. Never have I ever said "I love you" first.
19. Never have I ever been so heartbroken I didn't want to get out of bed.
20. Never have I ever had a memorable make-out session in the rain (like in the movies!).
21. Never have I ever lied about my intentions (looking for serious vs. just fun).
22. Never have I ever invited someone back to my place on the first night.
23. Never have I ever been attracted to someone I absolutely shouldn't be (like a close friend's partner).
24. Never have I ever had a date completely ruined by alcohol.
25. Never have I ever made a public declaration of love.

Going a Bit Further: Bodies, Experiences & Wild Places

Okay, now we're getting into more concrete stuff, physical experiences, and slightly more... daring situations.

26. Never have I ever sent a nude or underwear pic of myself.
27. Never have I ever received an unsolicited nude.
28. Never have I ever had sex in a public place (car, park, beach, bathroom...).
29. Never have I ever been caught in the act. Ultimate cringe!
30. Never have I ever joined the "mile high club" (had sex on a plane).
31. Never have I ever had sex in water (pool, ocean, hot tub...).
32. Never have I ever had sex in a really risky place (office, elevator, changing room...).
33. Never have I ever used food during foreplay or sex (whipped cream, chocolate...).
34. Never have I ever bought sex toys.
35. Never have I ever named one of my sex toys.
36. Never have I ever tried bondage (even lightly, with a scarf or something).
37. Never have I ever used handcuffs (or something similar).
38. Never have I ever given or received a spanking (consensually, obviously!).
39. Never have I ever given a strip tease (even just for laughs or if it was bad).
40. Never have I ever had a sexual encounter that lasted more than 3 hours straight.
41. Never have I ever filmed or photographed myself during sex (even if deleted later).
42. Never have I ever watched porn with a partner.
43. Never have I ever watched porn alone.
44. Never have I ever gotten an injury (even minor) related to sexual activity.
45. Never have I ever tried a particularly acrobatic Kama Sutra position.
46. Never have I ever had an orgasm so loud the neighbors might have heard.
47. Never have I ever faked an orgasm.
48. Never have I ever had a same-sex experience (if usually straight) or opposite-sex experience (if usually gay/bi).
49. Never have I ever had sex under the influence of drugs (other than alcohol).
50. Never have I ever worried I caught an STI after unprotected sex. (Reminder: wrap it up!)

Affairs of the Heart... and Other Entanglements: Relationships, Secrets & Cheating

Here, we explore couple (or non-couple!) dynamics, little secrets, grey areas, and forbidden things.

51. Never have I ever cheated physically.
52. Never have I ever cheated emotionally (developed strong feelings for someone else).
53. Never have I ever forgiven cheating.
54. Never have I ever been the "other person" someone cheated with.
55. Never have I ever had a secret relationship that nobody (or almost nobody) knew about.
56. Never have I ever had a "friends with benefits" situation.
57. Never have I ever developed feelings for my "friend with benefits."
58. Never have I ever had a relationship purely based on sex.
59. Never have I ever snooped through my partner's phone, messages, or social media.
60. Never have I ever been jealous enough to cause a scene.
61. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status (said I was single when I wasn't, or vice-versa).
62. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.
63. Never have I ever had a relationship with someone I met online but never saw in person.
64. Never have I ever dated someone much older (+10 years).
65. Never have I ever dated someone much younger (-10 years).
66. Never have I ever had a threesome (or more...).
67. Never have I ever attended a swingers party or lifestyle event.
68. Never have I ever had a relationship with my boss or a direct coworker.
69. Never have I ever slept with a friend's sibling.
70. Never have I ever slept with my partner's roommate.
71. Never have I ever hidden an important past relationship from my current partner.
72. Never have I ever regretted ending a relationship.
73. Never have I ever had an explosive argument in public with my partner.
74. Never have I ever paid for sex.
75. Never have I ever been paid for sex.

Fantasies, Desires & Unspeakable Little Secrets

Okay, now we're getting into the most intimate territory. The fuzzy areas. The desires we don't always admit, even to our closest friends. But that's exactly what makes these questions so juicy. Shall we?

76. Never have I ever fantasized about a specific celebrity (even a really unlikely one).
77. Never have I ever dreamed of having sex in a very specific (and original) place.
78. Never have I ever had a temporary obsession with someone I barely knew.
79. Never have I ever Googled "how to know if I'm attracted to..."
80. Never have I ever gotten turned on by a movie scene that wasn't supposed to be sexy.
81. Never have I ever imagined a sexy scenario with someone I'll probably never see again.
82. Never have I ever had a completely irrational crush (teacher, boss, stranger on the subway...).
83. Never have I ever explored a solo fantasy without ever daring to tell anyone.
84. Never have I ever been attracted to someone solely because of their voice.
85. Never have I ever wanted to relive a specific intimate moment just "to see."
86. Never have I ever faked being shy when I was actually totally owning it.
87. Never have I ever explored a particular kink or fetish (even just online).
88. Never have I ever been curious about a taboo practice (without necessarily trying it).
89. Never have I ever imagined a "forbidden scenario" just for fun (without ever acting on it).
90. Never have I ever been afraid to admit a fantasy to my partner.
91. Never have I ever had a dream so intense I didn't tell anyone about it.
92. Never have I ever used fanfiction or written content to get turned on.
93. Never have I ever looked up the definition of a sexual term I didn't know.
94. Never have I ever fantasized about a stranger I only crossed paths with once.
95. Never have I ever imagined an "alternate" love or sex life with someone.
96. Never have I ever gotten aroused reading a text or book (not just a movie or video).
97. Never have I ever been tempted by a threesome, even just in theory.
98. Never have I ever kept a sex-related secret I never plan on revealing.
99. Never have I ever had a completely absurd sexual thought (and owned it).
100. Never have I ever been surprised by what truly turns me on.

A Final Word: Keep it Fun & Safe

Okay, we just navigated some potentially tricky territory, true. But that's exactly what makes these nights memorable. The hot version of "Never Have I Ever" isn't just for laughs or shock value; it's also a (strangely effective) way to learn more about others... and yourself.

A few quick reminders before we wrap this up:

• Everyone goes at their own pace. Nobody has to answer everything. If a question makes someone uncomfortable, just skip to the next one. Easy.
• Respect above all. What's said in the game stays in the game. No judgment, no mocking.
• Consent > everything. Even in a game, it's fundamental. Keep the vibe light, safe, and supportive.

Need an excuse to plan the next get-together? This guide is here for you. So pour the drinks, turn down the lights, and bring out the questions that make people blush. Promise, it'll be unforgettable.