Never Have I Ever for Couples: 100+ Questions ❤️

April 17, 2025 Couple playing the Never Have I Ever game

So, you're a couple, huh? Cool! Whether you've been together for a few weeks, a few months, or even a few years (yeah, even at 16-25, it happens!), there are always little things to discover about each other. And what better way than a good old game of "Never Have I Ever" to do it in a fun, chill way?

Forget the serious interrogations; we're here to have fun, laugh about your shared (or not-so-shared!) little quirks, maybe confess a thing or two you've kept tucked away, and most importantly, strengthen your bond. It's kinda like a compatibility test, but way funnier!

Ready to find out if you're truly on the same wavelength or if there are still some (often hilarious) grey areas to uncover? Let's dive in!

How to play with just the two of you? Super simple!

The idea? Same as usual... except now it's a romantic one-on-one. For anyone just joining, the basic rules are explained in our complete guide to "Never Have I Ever", but basically:

One of you reads a "Never have I ever..." statement from the list below.
If you have done the thing mentioned, put down one finger (or take a tiny sip of your drink, or eat a piece of candy – whatever works for you!).
If you have never done the action, you do nothing (and you get to savor the moment your partner confesses!).
Switch roles for the next question, or just take turns reading.

The most important part? Be playful, be honest (that's the whole point!), and above all, don't take anything too seriously. It's meant to be fun!

The mega list for lovebirds: 100+ questions to test yourselves

We've cooked up a mix of questions ranging from cute to slightly embarrassing, and definitely revealing. Plenty to fuel your conversations and laughter!

The beginning: first steps, first sparks... or first fails?

Ah, the start of a relationship... Those often slightly awkward but totally memorable moments!

Never have I ever known from our first meeting that this was going to be special.
Never have I ever checked out your social media before our first date.
Never have I ever retold the story of how we met, embellishing it a little (a lot).
Never have I ever panicked about what to wear for our first date.
Never have I ever had a "backup plan" in case our first date sucked.
Never have I ever waited on purpose before replying to your first message.
Never have I ever analyzed your texts with my friends at the beginning.
Never have I ever been scared to make the first move for the first kiss.
Never have I ever found one of your little verbal quirks super cute at first (and maybe less so now? Oops).
Never have I ever lied about my taste (in music, movies...) to impress you early on.
Never have I ever had a date with you that was objectively kind of a dud, but we loved it anyway.
Never have I ever said "I love you" first.
Never have I ever regretted how we got together.
Never have I ever introduced my partner to my friends too soon.
Never have I ever thought our relationship wouldn't last at the very beginning.

Daily life together: little quirks and big habits (sometimes annoying?)

Living together (or spending a lot of time together) also means dealing with each other's habits... for better or for laughs!

Never have I ever stolen food off your plate without asking.
Never have I ever finished the last roll of toilet paper without changing it.
Never have I ever left my stuff everywhere just to see if you'd snap.
Never have I ever secretly used your toothbrush.
Never have I ever watched an episode of our show without you. (The ultimate crime!)
Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to avoid a conversation or a chore.
Never have I ever "borrowed" one of your hoodies/t-shirts and never really given it back.
Never have I ever criticized your driving (even just in my head).
Never have I ever put on music you hate just to annoy you.
Never have I ever been secretly thrilled to have the house/apartment to myself for a night.
Never have I ever judged your taste in music (even if, well...).
Never have I ever used up all the hot water on purpose.
Never have I ever blamed you for something I broke/lost.
Never have I ever had that couple argument about "who loves the other more."
Never have I ever found one of your habits secretly adorable, even if it's weird.

Secrets and... sneaky stuff? The truth, the whole truth (maybe)?

Because everyone has a few private thoughts, even in the tightest couples... right?

Never have I ever snooped through your phone or messages.
Never have I ever lied about where I was or who I was with.
Never have I ever hidden a purchase to avoid comments about the price.
Never have I ever pretended to like a gift you gave me.
Never have I ever told a little white lie to avoid hurting your feelings.
Never have I ever hidden the fact that I talked to an ex (even just saying hi).
Never have I ever had a secret social media account.
Never have I ever "forgotten" to tell you a juicy part of my day/night.
Never have I ever pretended to agree with you on something important when I really didn't.
Never have I ever eavesdropped when you were on the phone.
Never have I ever kept an awkward piece of info about one of your friends to myself.
Never have I ever lied about the number of partners I've had before you.
Never have I ever hidden a bad grade or a failure (school, work...).
Never have I ever pretended to be sick to cancel something we were supposed to do together.
Never have I ever had a secret I'm scared you'll find out someday.

Sensitive subjects: jealousy, exes & comparisons (careful, tricky territory!)

A little spice or a source of arguments? Jealousy and past relationships are often... interesting topics.

Never have I ever stalked your exes on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok.
Never have I ever been jealous for no good reason (and I knew it).
Never have I ever compared our relationship to one with an ex (even favorably).
Never have I ever been secretly annoyed when you talk about an ex.
Never have I ever worried you'd get back together with an ex.
Never have I ever disliked one of your friends because I thought they were too close to you.
Never have I ever made a mini jealousy scene in public.
Never have I ever asked tricky questions about your past relationships.
Never have I ever reread our old messages looking for "proof."
Never have I ever been jealous of your success or accomplishments.
Never have I ever deleted a comment or photo on social media because of jealousy.
Never have I ever fantasized about someone else since we've been together.
Never have I ever stayed in touch with an ex without telling you clearly.
Never have I ever thought one of your exes was more attractive than me.
Never have I ever secretly wished you were a little more jealous.

Under the covers (and around): romance, cuddles & little mishaps

Intimacy is important! And it leads to tender, funny, or... slightly awkward moments.

Never have I ever pretended to love one of your romantic gestures that I actually found cliché.
Never have I ever had an uncontrollable laughing fit during an intimate moment.
Never have I ever regretted an attempt at a romantic surprise that totally bombed.
Never have I ever been disappointed by an anniversary or Valentine's Day gift.
Never have I ever had a sudden urge (to pee!) at the worst possible moment.
Never have I ever had an awkward conversation about our intimate preferences.
Never have I ever had a slightly weird fantasy I haven't dared to tell you about.
Never have I ever felt awkward about my body in front of you.
Never have I ever compared our performance to what you see in movies/TV shows.
Never have I ever wanted to try something I saw in a dirty movie.
Never have I ever forgotten our anniversary (first date, couple anniversary...).
Never have I ever wanted more (or fewer) cuddles than you.
Never have I ever faked an orgasm (yeah, we're asking again, it's important!).
Never have I ever found one of your pajamas/loungewear outfits particularly awful but cute.
Never have I ever offered to give you a massage and then gave up after 2 minutes.

Getting a bit serious? Plans & looking ahead (no pressure!)

Even when you're young, sometimes you think about the future... or just have fun imagining it!

Never have I ever imagined our wedding just for fun.
Never have I ever thought about names for our future kids (even if it's 10 years away!).
Never have I ever pictured what our first apartment/house together would look like.
Never have I ever been scared of committing seriously to you (even for a split second).
Never have I ever discussed our financial future (even vaguely).
Never have I ever thought we were too different for it to work long-term.
Never have I ever been stressed about meeting your parents.
Never have I ever imagined a dream trip we'd take together someday.
Never have I ever doubted our relationship after a big fight.
Never have I ever thought you were "the one" for me. (Watch out for the answer!)
Never have I ever seriously considered breaking up.
Never have I ever worried about not being good enough for you.
Never have I ever compared our relationship to our parents' relationship.
Never have I ever talked about you to my family like you were my future spouse.
Never have I ever been relieved that we don't have to make super serious decisions yet.

You + the rest of the world: friends, family & (sometimes) awkward situations

A couple is also a social unit! How does it work with everyone else around you?

Never have I ever been secretly annoyed by one of your friends.
Never have I ever pretended to like your parents/family.
Never have I ever been embarrassed by you in front of my friends or family.
Never have I ever told my friends a slightly too personal story about you.
Never have I ever felt like your friends didn't like me.
Never have I ever preferred spending a night with my friends instead of you.
Never have I ever had a super awkward conversation with your parents.
Never have I ever defended my partner tooth and nail to my family/friends.
Never have I ever felt like a third wheel during an outing with your friends.
Never have I ever lied to my parents about us sleeping over together.
Never have I ever criticized your friends or family behind your back (even nicely).
Never have I ever been relieved when your parents aren't around.
Never have I ever worried that our families wouldn't get along.
Never have I ever pushed my partner to come to a family/friend event they didn't want to go to.
Never have I ever thought our relationship made our single friends jealous.

Phew! That's quite a list, right? If you enjoyed this, feel free to check out our complete guide to "Never Have I Ever" for other categories (funny, dirty, friends...).

A few quick tips to keep things cool between you

Playing this as a couple is great, but to avoid things turning sour, keep this in mind:

Honesty, remember! The game only works if you play fair. But...
No judgment or score-settling! Okay, maybe you learn something surprising or slightly annoying. Take a breath, laugh about it (if you can), but don't turn the game into a trial. That's not the point.
Use it to talk LATER. If an answer intrigues or affects you, make a mental note and talk about it calmly later, once the game is over. "Hey, when you said you'd never..., it made me think..."
The "Pass" Card exists. If a question is REALLY too sensitive for one of you, agree on one or two "passes" to skip without answering (or drinking/putting a finger down). Trust comes first.
Adapt the list. If some questions seem lame or don't fit, skip 'em! It's YOUR game.

So, ready to start playing?

You're now fully equipped for a night (or several!) of revelations, laughter, and connection. It's a fantastic way to break the routine and reconnect in a lighthearted way.

Go on, have fun, lovebirds! And may the most honest (or the sneakiest?) one win! 😉