She's a 10 But: 137 Hot Questions for Your Parties

January 22, 2025

Let's not lie, after a few drinks or when a party drags on late into the night, the game often drifts towards topics that are a bit more... carnal. And honestly, that's where it gets really funny (and sometimes very revealing). You know what? Testing your friends' or your crush's boundaries on what they accept in bed is the best way to break the ice.

Here is a list of 137 super juicy questions to spice up your game. We've mixed fantasies, weird habits, and physical assets. Get ready, because the temperature is about to rise.

Foreplay and Vibes

The setting, the kissing, the approach... Sometimes everything is decided before it even really starts. Let me explain: some details can ruin everything or, on the contrary, save the day.

1. It's a 10 but they never use tongue when kissing
2. It's a 4 but their breath on your neck gives you instant shivers
3. It's a 10 but they always want to keep their socks on
4. It's an 8 but they only want to do it in complete darkness
5. It's a 10 but they have a sex drive that overwhelms your schedule
6. It's a 2 but they have magic hands for massages
7. It's a 10 but they play hard rock music during the act
8. It's a 7 but they undress you with their eyes in two seconds
9. It's a 10 but they don't want you to touch their hair
10. It's a 5 but they wear luxury lingerie every day
11. It's a 10 but they fall asleep during foreplay
12. It's a 9 but they have cigarette breath constantly
13. It's a 10 but they want you to ask for permission for every single move
14. It's a 3 but they have a body sculpted by the gods
15. It's a 10 but they only want to do it if the bed is perfectly made
16. It's an 8 but they have a tongue piercing that changes everything
17. It's a 10 but they narrate everything they do out loud
18. It's a 6 but they know exactly where to put their lips to make you melt
19. It's a 10 but they never want to be the one to initiate
20. It's a 4 but they kiss like in the movies
21. It's a 10 but they have a toy collection that takes up the whole closet
22. It's a 7 but they are super flexible and can do impossible positions
23. It's a 10 but they want you to stay dressed
24. It's a 5 but they have an incredibly smooth voice when they wake up
25. It's a 10 but they want you to call them by a ridiculous pet name
26. It's a 9 but they never want to change positions
27. It's a 10 but they are terrified of hickeys
28. It's a 2 but they have an apartment with a giant bed and mirrors on the ceiling
29. It's a 10 but they want you to give them a full striptease every time
30. It's an 8 but they are addicted to intense roleplay
31. It's a 10 but they can't stand being seen naked under direct light
32. It's a 6 but their natural scent drives you crazy
33. It's a 10 but they always want to film it
34. It's a 4 but they have an incredibly agile tongue
35. It's a 10 but they always finish in under two minutes
36. It's a 7 but they love surprising you in public places
37. It's a 10 but they refuse to touch you if you haven't showered right before
38. It's a 3 but rumors say they are a legend in bed
39. It's a 10 but they want you to wear a superhero costume
40. It's a 9 but they are way too loud for your neighbors
41. It's a 10 but they never want to cuddle afterwards
42. It's a 5 but they have a look that undresses you instantly
43. It's a 10 but they only want to do it very early in the morning
44. It's an 8 but they have very rough hands
45. It's a 10 but they want you to wear handcuffs every time

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Fantasies and Kinks

This is where the game gets really interesting. We’re entering the zone of... specific preferences. What’s your limit? Here's the thing: what's a "no" for one person is a "10" for another.

46. It's a 10 but they want you to give them orders
47. It's a 4 but they are a pro at dirty talk
48. It's a 10 but they have a very open foot fetish
49. It's a 9 but they always want to bring in a third person
50. It's a 10 but they want you to bite their ears really hard
51. It's a 2 but they have sex appeal that turns every head
52. It's a 10 but they want you to wear animal masks
53. It's a 7 but they love being tied up for hours
54. It's a 10 but they only want to do it in the woods
55. It's a 5 but they know every technique in the Kama Sutra by heart
56. It's a 10 but they want you to use food during the act
57. It's an 8 but they have a passion for latex
58. It's a 10 but they want you to pretend to be strangers in a hotel
59. It's a 3 but they have overflowing sexual energy
60. It's a 10 but they want you to spank them very regularly
61. It's a 9 but they always want you to wear high heels in bed
62. It's a 10 but they want you to tell them your old fantasies with your exes
63. It's a 6 but they are incredibly skilled with their fingers
64. It's a 10 but they want to do it in front of a giant mirror
65. It's a 4 but they make you climb the walls in seconds
66. It's a 10 but they want you to do erotic scavenger hunts
67. It's a 7 but they have a collection of leather outfits
68. It's a 10 but they want you to blindfold them every time
69. It's an 8 but they only want to do it in moving cars
70. It's a 10 but they want you to call them by their last name
71. It's a 5 but they have a hypnotizing sway to their hips
72. It's a 10 but they want you to use ice on their body
73. It's a 9 but they tend to be a little too aggressive in bed
74. It's a 10 but they want you to watch while they please themselves
75. It's a 2 but they have the physical stamina of a marathon runner
76. It's a 10 but they want to have sex in the shower (even if it's not practical)
77. It's a 6 but they are a fan of Japanese bondage
78. It's a 10 but they want you to read erotic novels out loud to them during the act
79. It's a 4 but they have a gift for finding your erogenous zones in the blink of an eye
80. It's a 10 but they want to make love in a camping tent in the middle of a festival
81. It's a 6 but they have an absolutely magnificent arch in their back
82. It's a 10 but they want you to wear edible underwear on every date
83. It's an 8 but they need a psychological debriefing after every session
84. It's a 10 but they want you to pretend to be their boss
85. It's a 5 but they possess a secret room filled with luxury toys
86. It's a 10 but they want you to nibble their neck until you leave very visible marks
87. It's a 7 but they are ready to try absolutely every position in the Kama Sutra
88. It's a 10 but they categorically refuse to let you touch their feet
89. It's a 3 but they know exactly what words to whisper to make you lose your mind
90. It's a 10 but they want to do it in an elevator between floors
91. It's a 9 but they have an obsession with hot candle wax
92. It's a 10 but they want to make love with the news radio on
93. It's a 6 but they have stamina that leaves you totally exhausted
94. It's a 10 but they want you to wear a full latex suit
95. It's an 8 but they only want to do it in hotel rooms
96. It's a 10 but they want you to stay silent from start to finish
97. It's a 4 but they have a look that makes you want to give in to everything
98. It's a 10 but they want to make love in the ocean (despite the salt and sand)
99. It's a 7 but they love it when you take them by surprise in the middle of the day
100. It's a 10 but they want you to wear a bell around your neck
101. It's a 10 but they want you to pull their hair during the act
102. It's a 5 but the way they move their hips drives anyone crazy
103. It's a 10 but they want you to wear a blindfold the whole time
104. It's an 8 but they have a passion for ice cubes and cold sensations on the skin
105. It's a 10 but they want a 20-minute technical debriefing after every session
106. It's a 4 but they know how to use their lips like no one else on this planet
107. It's a 10 but they only want to do it in trendy restaurant bathrooms
108. It's a 7 but they have an incredibly muscular and defined body
109. It's a 10 but they want you to wear a maid or butler outfit
110. It's a 9 but they absolutely want you to call them "master" or "mistress"
111. It's a 10 but they only like ultra-quick quickies under five minutes
112. It's a 2 but they are officially the best lover of your entire life
113. It's a 10 but they want you to stay totally still while they do all the work
114. It's an 8 but they only want to do it to blasting techno music
115. It's a 10 but they need to see photos of your exes to get really turned on
116. It's a 5 but they have a dream butt or chest that catches every eye
117. It's a 10 but they want you to pretend you don't know each other at all in the street
118. It's a 7 but they love it when you're a bit rough and wild in bed
119. It's a 10 but they want you to give them a full striptease to heavy metal
120. It's a 6 but they know all your sensitive spots without you saying anything
121. It's a 10 but they want you to keep your dress shoes on in bed
122. It's an 8 but they are a fan of bondage and own all the necessary gear
123. It's a 10 but they only want to do it if you tell them dirty stories beforehand
124. It's a 4 but they have a voice that gives you shivers as soon as they whisper in your ear
125. It's a 10 but they want to make love backstage at a crowded concert
126. It's an 8 but they want you to wear latex every time
127. It's a 10 but their sex drive is so high you don't sleep anymore at night
128. It's a 4 but they are capable of sending you to the moon with a simple look
129. It's a 10 but they want you to do it on their boss's desk on a Sunday night
130. It's a 6 but they have sex appeal that makes absolutely everyone on the street crush on them
131. It's a 10 but they want you to give them orders constantly, even outside the bedroom
132. It's a 9 but they don't want you to make a single sound so you don't wake up their roommates
133. It's a 10 but they want you to pretend to be perfect strangers picking each other up at a bar
134. It's a 5 but they have a sensual massage technique that makes you totally addicted in two minutes
135. It's a 10 but they want to make love in front of a floor-to-ceiling window with no curtains
136. It's an 8 but they own a pretty impressive collection of handcuffs and ropes
137. It's a 10 but they want to do it during an important Zoom meeting with the camera off

So, do we Validate or Lower the Score?

Here's the thing: these kinds of questions are make or break. Honestly, it's the best way to know if you're really on the same wavelength fantasy-wise or if it's the start of a huge awkward moment. Let me explain: sometimes, a little kinky detail can instantly turn a 4 into a 10 if that's your vibe.

If you haven't found what you're looking for yet or if you want to explore other categories to cool things down a bit (or on the contrary, go even further into impossible dilemmas), check out our complete guide with the 360 questions for the She's a 10 but game. It's the ultimate resource to spice up your parties and never get bored with friends or your partner again.

On that note, stay curious and don't forget: the most important thing is to be on the same page before rolling the dice!