Would You Rather: 100+ Questions for Couples

April 25, 2025

Whether you've been together for two weeks, six months, or even several years, there's always something new to discover about each other, right? Sometimes you think you know your partner inside out, and then BAM, a seemingly random question reveals a hidden side, a weird preference, or just a funny story.

And for that, the "Would You Rather" game, couple's edition, is just perfect. It's a super fun and casual way to start conversations, understand how your other half ticks, laugh at your little quirks, and let's be real, strengthen your connection. Forget formal interrogations; we're here to have fun and get closer.

So, get comfy, grab some snacks (or maybe not, some questions might kill your appetite... or stimulate it, who knows? 😉), and get ready to make some tough (or just plain silly) choices together. Let's kick off a couples' Would You Rather session!

Everyday Life Together

Let's start with the nitty-gritty: day-to-day life!

1. Would you rather do the dishes every night or take out the trash (even when it's raining)?
2. Would you rather wake up early together on the weekend to seize the day or sleep in until noon?
3. Would you rather leave your socks lying around or have to pick up your partner's?
4. Would you rather cook together, even if it's chaotic, or have one person cook while the other relaxes?
5. Would you rather choose the movie/show tonight or let your partner decide?
6. Would you rather have total control of the remote or the Spotify playlist?
7. Would you rather have a spotless apartment/house always or a cheerfully organized mess?
8. Would you rather share absolutely all your food or have your own plate (hands off!)?
9. Would you rather do grocery shopping together or have one person handle it for both?
10. Would you rather sleep with the window open (even in winter) or completely closed?
11. Would you rather each have your own duvet or share one (and wage war over the covers)?
12. Would you rather get ready quickly in the morning or take your sweet time?
13. Would you rather receive help with a task without asking or always be asked before someone steps in?
14. Would you rather have a quick weekday breakfast or a proper Sunday brunch?
15. Would you rather manage the budget together down to the last penny or have some financial independence?

Special Moments and Outings

Because being a couple is also (mostly?) about shared moments!

16. Would you rather have a quiet movie night at home or a spontaneous fancy dinner out?
17. Would you rather go on an adventurous backpacking vacation or an all-inclusive stay at a luxury hotel?
18. Would you rather have a surprise weekend planned by your partner or plan your next getaway together?
19. Would you rather receive physical gifts or experiences to share (concert, trip...)?
20. Would you rather have a big birthday party with all your friends or an intimate celebration just the two of you?
21. Would you rather explore a new city together or return to a place you both already love?
22. Would you rather spend hours chatting in a café or do a sports activity together?
23. Would you rather have a board game night with friends or a romantic evening one-on-one?
24. Would you rather find little sweet notes left by surprise or have big public declarations of love?
25. Would you rather go see a football/rugby match or a ballet/opera? (Or neither!)
26. Would you rather go for a walk in nature (forest, mountains) or spend a day shopping in the city?
27. Would you rather try a trendy new restaurant or go back to your favorite local spot?
28. Would you rather receive a handmade gift made with love or an expensive store-bought gift?
29. Would you rather go on vacation with other couple friends or just the two of you?
30. Would you rather watch the sunset in silence or the sunrise after staying up all night?

Communication and Conflicts

Yep, it happens even to the best couples! Better to know how the other person reacts...

31. Would you rather resolve a disagreement immediately, even in the heat of the moment, or wait until you're both calm to talk it through?
32. Would you rather need space after an argument or need a make-up cuddle right away?
33. Would you rather say outright when something bothers you or bottle it up to avoid conflict?
34. Would you rather receive constructive criticism about your flaws or have nothing said and just be left to it?
35. Would you rather talk about your feelings openly or show them through actions?
36. Would you rather have deep conversations about your emotions or keep conversations light and fun?
37. Would you rather be asked lots of questions when something's wrong or be left to talk about it when you're ready?
38. Would you rather confide in your partner first or your friends/family?
39. Would you rather forgive a mistake easily or need time to move past it?
40. Would you rather your partner guess what you need or have to spell it out clearly?
41. Would you rather discuss "serious" topics (money, commitment) in a planned way or whenever they come up naturally?
42. Would you rather laugh together about past disagreements or never bring them up again?
43. Would you rather use cute pet names in public or keep them private?
44. Would you rather receive a long apology text or have a face-to-face discussion?
45. Would you rather your partner always defend you (even if you're wrong) or stay objective?

Intimacy and Romance

The secret garden of your relationship... explore it with respect and amusement!

46. Would you rather have long silent cuddles or lively discussions late into the night?
47. Would you rather have long, sensual foreplay or get more directly to the point?
48. Would you rather share passionate kisses in public or discreet tender gestures?
49. Would you rather receive a sensual massage or give one?
50. Would you rather try new things in bed or stick to what you know works well?
51. Would you rather talk openly about your fantasies or keep some things mysterious?
52. Would you rather make love with dim lights or in complete darkness?
53. Would you rather hear sweet nothings whispered in your ear or more direct compliments?
54. Would you rather take a romantic shower or bath together?
55. Would you rather surprise your partner with lingerie/a sexy gesture or be surprised yourself?
56. Would you rather have morning cuddles when you wake up or evening cuddles before sleep?
57. Would you rather hold hands while walking down the street or put an arm around their waist/shoulders?
58. Would you rather receive naughty little gifts or share sensual experiences?
59. Would you rather remember your first kiss or your first "I love you"?
60. Would you rather have spontaneity and unpredictability in bed or a prepared atmosphere (candles, music...)?

Plans and Future

No pressure, just to see where you're at... or where you'd like to go!

61. Would you rather talk about long-term future plans (marriage, kids, house) or enjoy the present moment without too much planning?
62. Would you rather live in a small city apartment or a big house in the countryside?
63. Would you rather have kids someday or travel the world? (And why not both?)
64. Would you rather have a big wedding with all the family and friends or an intimate ceremony with just the two of you (or almost)?
65. Would you rather adopt a dog, a cat, or no pets at all?
66. Would you rather have demanding careers or prioritize time spent together?
67. Would you rather meet the in-laws quickly or wait until the relationship is well-established?
68. Would you rather spend Christmas separately with your own families or find a compromise to be together?
69. Would you rather save up for a big joint project or spend on immediate pleasures?
70. Would you rather grow old together in your current city or move abroad for retirement?
71. Would you rather have well-established couple traditions or always improvise?
72. Would you rather your respective friends get along great or keep your friend circles somewhat separate?
73. Would you rather imagine your life in 5 years or in 20 years?
74. Would you rather succeed professionally even if it means seeing less of your partner, or the opposite?
75. Would you rather pass on shared values to your (potential) children or give them complete freedom of choice?

Just for Fun

Because you gotta laugh a little!

76. Would you rather wear matching T-shirts in public or have the same cheesy ringtone?
77. Would you rather let your partner cut your hair or you cut theirs? (Risky!)
78. Would you rather watch a cliché rom-com together or a really scary horror movie?
79. Would you rather share your Netflix/Spotify account or each have your own?
80. Would you rather sing your hearts out together in the car or listen to music in silence?
81. Would you rather your partner see your just-woke-up morning face or hear you snore?
82. Would you rather have the same favorite food or completely opposite tastes?
83. Would you rather successfully cook a complicated dish for your partner or have them successfully assemble IKEA furniture without getting mad?
84. Would you rather let the other person choose the decor or impose your own style?
85. Would you rather your partner know your phone password or definitely not?
86. Would you rather do a karaoke duet to a cheesy love song or a TikTok dance challenge?
87. Would you rather have an uncontrollable laughing fit during a serious moment or cry during a sad movie?
88. Would you rather have your partner pick out your clothes for a day or the other way around?
89. Would you rather have a funny secret just between the two of you or share all your stories with your friends?
90. Would you rather have a steamy nap or a pillow fight?
91. Would you rather your partner perfectly imitate your voice or your mannerisms?
92. Would you rather go to a wedding where you know nobody or a slightly boring family dinner?
93. Would you rather have to put up with their weird hobby (stamp collecting, K-Pop obsession...) or have them put up with yours?
94. Would you rather dance a ridiculous slow dance in public or sing a serenade (even badly)?
95. Would you rather finish each other's sentences or have your own secret language?
96. Would you rather face a spider for your partner or have them do it for you?
97. Would you rather your partner tell you about their day in detail or just the highlights?
98. Would you rather have an embarrassing photo of your partner or have them have one of you?
99. Would you rather pretend to like a gift they gave you or gently tell them the truth?
100. Would you rather spend an entire day without phones, just the two of you, or be able to communicate even when apart?
101. Would you rather re-watch your favorite movie/show for the 10th time or discover something new together?

So, how did this couples' "Would You Rather" go?

Playing this game isn't just a way to pass the time. It's an opportunity to:

• Better understand each other's preferences and desires.
• Discover things you might not have known.
• Spark discussions, important or not, about your relationship.
• Strengthen your bond by sharing choices, laughs, and sometimes minor, harmless disagreements.
• Simply have a great time together!

Want even more questions for every occasion?

These Would You Rather questions for couples are a great starting point to liven up your evenings or quiet moments. But if you want to mix things up and explore other themes – whether it's genuinely funny questions to mess around with friends, spicier hot versions to turn up the heat, juicy questions that make you think, or even lists tailored for teens or kids – we've got you covered!

Check out our complete guide to "Would You Rather" questions with hundreds of ideas, game rules, and tips for unforgettable rounds.

Have fun (re)discovering your partner and your relationship!