Would You Rather: 180 Questions to Spice Up Your Hangouts

April 25, 2025

So, you're hanging out with your friends, the vibe is cool, but you feel like it needs a little something extra to really get going? Or maybe you just want to get to know someone better – could be your crush, your long-time buddies, or even your family (yeah, yeah, it works for them too!). Look no further, 'cause I've got just the thing: the "Would You Rather" game.

Simple, effective, and honestly, usually pretty hilarious. The concept is super well-known, but hey, a little refresher never hurts, right?

So, how do you play "Would You Rather"? It's seriously easy.

The idea is dead simple: someone asks you a question with two options, often kinda weird, embarrassing, or straight-up impossible choices. And here's the kicker: you have to choose. No "pass," no "both," no "it depends." You've gotta pick one. That's the fun part!

• The goal? To find out stuff about other people (and yourself, you'll see!), start some lively debates (all in good fun, obviously), and most importantly, just have a good time.
• A fun little twist: After you choose, explain why. That's often where the best conversations or biggest laughs start. Trust me, you might be surprised by some of the answers!

Ready to jump in? Here’s a stash of over 180 questions sorted by theme to fuel your next hangouts. Alright, let's start easy (or maybe not).

Funny Would You Rather Questions

Let's kick things off with the basics: the questions that make you laugh, the ones that are a bit absurd, perfect for lightening the mood. Honestly, there’s nothing better to break the ice.

A few gems to get started (20 funny questions):

1. Would you rather have spaghetti for hair or sneeze grated cheese?
2. Would you rather talk like Yoda forever or only communicate by singing?
3. Would you rather have a super high-pitched cartoon laugh or a robot voice?
4. Would you rather have to wear flippers on your feet every day or boxing gloves on your hands?
5. Would you rather fight one giant chicken or fifty normal-sized ducks?
6. Would you rather have hiccups for a year or constantly feel like you have to sneeze but can't?
7. Would you rather permanently smell like feet or have fishy breath?
8. Would you rather never eat chocolate again or never listen to music again? (The horror!)
9. Would you rather have a light-up clown nose that glows when you lie or pointy elf ears?
10. Would you rather trip over nothing in public once a day or spill your drink on someone at every meal?
11. Would you rather be able to talk to squirrels but they make fun of you or understand cats but not be able to talk back?
12. Would you rather live in a gingerbread house (risk of nibbling!) or in a bouncy castle?
13. Would you rather have a "mute" button for people IRL or a "fast forward" button for boring classes?
14. Would you rather only wear neon clothes or only wear clothes three sizes too big?
15. Would you rather have a permanent cold or an impossible-to-scratch itch on your back?
16. Would you rather eat a whole pizza topped with anchovies and pineapple or a bowl of cereal with water instead of milk?
17. Would you rather have a pet unicorn that eats your furniture or a miniature dragon that breathes glitter?
18. Would you rather be able to teleport but always arrive 5 minutes late or be able to fly but only 3 feet off the ground?
19. Would you rather have to dance the Macarena every time you hear your name or sing the alphabet backward before speaking?
20. Would you rather have super slow internet forever or only be able to use Internet Explorer? (Yeah, it's cruel.)

• Want more laughs? Check out our full list of funny Would You Rather questions.

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Hot Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Okay, okay, moving on to the serious stuff (or maybe not so serious, actually!). These questions are definitely for adults, so bring them out with the right crowd, at the right time. Think a more intimate, spicier vibe... you get the idea. Time to test some boundaries and see who dares to answer what!

20 questions to spice up the night:

1. Would you rather have sex in a risky public place or somewhere totally unique but private?
2. Would you rather have a partner who's very experienced but a bit cold or less skilled but very attentive?
3. Would you rather receive a super hot sext or a flirty voice message?
4. Would you rather dominate or be dominated in bed?
5. Would you rather have a passionate kiss in the rain or a steamy cuddle by the fireplace?
6. Would you rather try out a wild new fantasy or repeat something you already love?
7. Would you rather watch an erotic movie with your partner or read some naughty literature together?
8. Would you rather have a steamy one-night stand or a gentler but potentially long-lasting connection?
9. Would you rather have long, sensual foreplay or get straight to the main event?
10. Would you rather explore pleasure with toys or only with hands and mouths?
11. Would you rather whisper sweet nothings or dirty talk during sex?
12. Would you rather take a sensual shower together or a romantic bubble bath?
13. Would you rather be surprised by your partner or plan everything together?
14. Would you rather make out intensely for hours or move on to the next step quickly?
15. Would you rather do it with the lights on or in complete darkness?
16. Would you rather get a sensual oil massage or light caresses with a feather?
17. Would you rather try visiting a swingers' club (just watching!) or a nude beach?
18. Would you rather talk about your deepest desires or write them down in an anonymous letter?
19. Would you rather have a one-night stand with a celebrity or with a very attractive stranger?
20. Would you rather know exactly what your partner is thinking during sex or keep some mystery?

• Need more heat? Check the full list of hot Would You Rather questions.

Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Whether you've been together for two weeks or two years, these questions are perfect for exploring your relationship, discovering each other's preferences, and maybe even kicking off important discussions (or just laughing about your differences). It’s a cool way to strengthen your bond.

20 questions just for couples:

1. Would you rather have a chill movie night at home or a spontaneous adventurous outing?
2. Would you rather receive surprise gifts or spend quality time together?
3. Would you rather resolve a conflict right away or wait until you've both calmed down to talk?
4. Would you rather go on vacation in a luxury hotel or backpack and stay in hostels?
5. Would you rather cook together or order takeout and chill?
6. Would you rather have clear shared goals for the future or live more day-by-day?
7. Would you rather say "I love you" often or show it through actions?
8. Would you rather each spend a night out with your own friends or always go out together?
9. Would you rather have lots of mutual friends or keep your social circles mostly separate?
10. Would you rather be complimented on your intelligence or your looks?
11. Would you rather have a partner who pushes you out of your comfort zone or one who supports your routines?
12. Would you rather have deep talks about the future or lighthearted, funny conversations?
13. Would you rather do sports activities together or share creative hobbies?
14. Would you rather keep some secrets (even small ones) or share absolutely everything?
15. Would you rather have a partner who's super organized or one who's more spontaneous and messy?
16. Would you rather meet each other's families quickly or wait until you're sure about the relationship?
17. Would you rather manage finances together down to the last penny or have some financial independence?
18. Would you rather have big public declarations of love or quiet, sweet words in private?
19. Would you rather binge-watch a series together or each have your own favorite shows?
20. Would you rather make up after a fight with a big hug or with a calm discussion?

• Want to dive deeper into your relationship? Discover more Would You Rather questions for couples.

Would You Rather Questions for Friends

This is THE classic for nights in with friends. Perfect for jump-starting conversation, digging up hidden stories, or just confirming that, yep, you guys are the wildest friend group around. Get ready for some revelations and guaranteed laughs.

20 questions to strengthen (or test!) your friendship:

1. Would you rather go on a road trip with your friends with no money or a luxury vacation with your family?
2. Would you rather your best friend date your ex or hide a huge mistake they made from you?
3. Would you rather have to keep an embarrassing secret about a friend or reveal a minor, unimportant secret about yourself?
4. Would you rather throw a huge surprise party for a friend or have one thrown for you?
5. Would you rather have a super reliable but slightly boring friend or a hilarious friend who's always late and unreliable?
6. Would you rather lend money to a friend (and risk never seeing it again) or refuse and potentially offend them?
7. Would you rather be the sober designated driver all night or the one talking nonsense after two drinks?
8. Would you rather have the same sense of humor as your friends or the same taste in music?
9. Would you rather your friends always tell you the truth, even if it hurts, or slightly sugarcoat things?
10. Would you rather have a board game night or a night just talking and putting the world to rights?
11. Would you rather be friends with someone very different from you or someone very similar?
12. Would you rather defend a friend who's wrong or stay neutral to avoid drama?
13. Would you rather share your food with your friends or keep your plate all to yourself? (Crucial question!)
14. Would you rather reconnect with an old friend you lost touch with or make a great new friend?
15. Would you rather your friends know all your flaws or all your best qualities?
16. Would you rather go camping with your friends in rough conditions or rent a villa with a pool?
17. Would you rather have a very close-knit but small group of friends or know lots of people casually?
18. Would you rather be the one who listens to everyone else's problems or the one telling your own stories?
19. Would you rather have to put up with a friend's annoying partner or tell your friend honestly what you think of them?
20. Would you rather your friends gently roast you in public or give you sincere compliments in private?

• Ready to test your squad? Find even more Would You Rather questions for friends to liven up your hangouts.

Juicy Would You Rather Questions

Okay, now we're getting into the "revealing" category. These questions are a bit more personal, sometimes a bit deeper. They're perfect for those moments when the vibe is more chill, for really getting to know people (or yourself!). It's juicy because the answers can be surprising, spark interesting debates, or reveal unexpected sides of people.

20 questions to scratch beneath the surface:

1. Would you rather be incredibly rich but alone or have little money but be surrounded by love?
2. Would you rather know the exact date of your death or never know?
3. Would you rather have the power to go back in time to change one mistake or see your future 10 years from now?
4. Would you rather be famous for something you didn't do or remain anonymous despite an incredible achievement?
5. Would you rather sacrifice your personal happiness for the greater good or prioritize your own happiness?
6. Would you rather live a short, intense life full of adventure or a long, quiet but somewhat monotonous life?
7. Would you rather easily forgive someone who hurt you or hold a grudge for a long time?
8. Would you rather be able to read other people's minds (and hear everything) or have others be able to read yours?
9. Would you rather have a job you're passionate about but pays poorly or a boring job that pays very well?
10. Would you rather be admired for your physical beauty or your intelligence?
11. Would you rather forget everything about your past or be unable to create new memories?
12. Would you rather have the answer to every scientific question or every philosophical question?
13. Would you rather defend a just cause even if you're alone against everyone or follow the majority to keep things peaceful?
14. Would you rather be able to control your dreams or never have nightmares again?
15. Would you rather live in a world with no lies (brutal honesty all the time) or a world with no conflict (but maybe less sincerity)?
16. Would you rather have the courage to always speak your mind or the wisdom to know when to stay quiet?
17. Would you rather give up your smartphone forever or give up vacations for 5 years?
18. Would you rather be respected or loved?
19. Would you rather discover a painful truth or continue living in a comfortable illusion?
20. Would you rather leave behind a significant material inheritance or a legacy of good deeds and memories?

• Want to dig even deeper? Find other juicy Would You Rather questions.

Extreme Would You Rather Questions

Alright, buckle up. We're cranking it up to eleven with some truly extreme dilemmas. These are the questions that'll make you squirm, gag, or question your own sanity. Not for the faint of heart – you've been warned.

20 extreme questions to push your limits:

1. Would you rather sweat mayonnaise or cry vinegar?
2. Would you rather have teeth instead of hair or hair instead of teeth?
3. Would you rather eat a bowl of fried spiders or a bowl of live earthworms?
4. Would you rather never brush your teeth again or never take a shower again?
5. Would you rather have breath that smells like hot garbage forever or body odor that people can smell from 10 feet away?
6. Would you rather lick the subway floor or the handrail on a crowded bus?
7. Would you rather drink dirty dishwater or drink someone else's bathwater?
8. Would you rather always have a visible booger or always have a piece of spinach stuck in your teeth?
9. Would you rather vomit every time you kiss someone or get diarrhea every time you eat your favorite food?
10. Would you rather walk barefoot on Legos for the rest of your life or on slugs?
11. Would you rather have fingers shaped like cocktail sausages or legs like spaghetti noodles?
12. Would you rather eat cat food for a year or eat dog food for a month?
13. Would you rather have skin that feels sticky forever or skin that itches constantly?
14. Would you rather sneeze 50 times a day or have hiccups for 2 hours every single day?
15. Would you rather have to eat everything on your plate with your hands or only be able to eat through a straw?
16. Would you rather have 4-inch toenails that you can never cut or have no nails at all?
17. Would you rather sleep in a bed full of crumbs or sleep in a damp bed?
18. Would you rather eat a rotten egg or drink milk that expired a month ago?
19. Would you rather have a rough tongue like a cat or a slimy tongue like a frog?
20. Would you rather have fly eyes or elephant ears?

• Ready for the extreme? Check out our full list of extreme Would You Rather questions.

Impossible Would You Rather Questions

Now we're entering true no-win territory. These impossible dilemmas have no good answer – just a less terrible one. It's pure instinct, zero logic. Let's see what your gut tells you.

20 impossible dilemmas to break your brain:

1. Would you rather never have internet access again or never be able to listen to music again?
2. Would you rather always have 1% battery or have super slow internet?
3. Would you rather wear wet clothes for the rest of your life or always have a pebble in your shoe?
4. Would you rather never eat pizza again or never eat a burger again?
5. Would you rather have to say everything you think or never be able to speak again?
6. Would you rather have fingers shaped like legs or legs shaped like fingers?
7. Would you rather live without heating in winter or without AC in summer?
8. Would you rather lose all your teeth or lose all your hair?
9. Would you rather always be too hot or always be too cold?
10. Would you rather never use social media again or never watch movies/shows again?
11. Would you rather have permanent hiccups or sneeze every 2 minutes?
12. Would you rather eat your favorite dish for every meal or never be able to eat it again?
13. Would you rather know when you're going to die or how you're going to die?
14. Would you rather live in the past or live in the future?
15. Would you rather be invisible or be able to fly?
16. Would you rather never need to sleep again or never need to eat again?
17. Would you rather have arms that are 13 feet long or legs that are 20 inches long?
18. Would you rather control fire or control water?
19. Would you rather be rich but alone or poor but surrounded by people who love you?
20. Would you rather wipe out all your debts or double your current salary?

• Want more impossible choices? Discover our full list of impossible Would You Rather questions.

Would You Rather Questions for Teens

Alright, this is right in your wheelhouse: high school years, friends, first crushes, existential questions (or not). These questions are dialed in for you guys, teens. Perfect for livening up an afternoon or a party with friends, and seeing if you're all on the same wavelength.

20 questions for Gen Z (and slightly older!):

1. Would you rather have 1 million TikTok followers or 3 real friends for life?
2. Would you rather fail a super important test or have to give a presentation to the whole school on a ridiculous topic?
3. Would you rather your parents read your diary or snoop through your phone? (The nightmare!)
4. Would you rather have free but super slow Wi-Fi everywhere or ultra-fast 5G but only for 1 hour a day?
5. Would you rather date the most popular person in school who isn't very nice or someone less known but really sweet?
6. Would you rather have to wear a school uniform every day or have a super strict dress code?
7. Would you rather be amazing at math but terrible at sports or the other way around?
8. Would you rather get advice from your parents about your love life or your fashion sense?
9. Would you rather go to a party where you don't know anyone or stay home alone on a Saturday night?
10. Would you rather have the power to be invisible or the power to read minds (careful what you wish for!)?
11. Would you rather never be able to use social media again or never listen to music again?
12. Would you rather your crush find out your most embarrassing secret or your entire class see your photo gallery?
13. Would you rather have super cool parents who act like your friends or strict parents who mostly leave you alone?
14. Would you rather eat cafeteria food every day or have to pack your own lunch every day?
15. Would you rather be known for being hilarious or super smart?
16. Would you rather have to do your homework as soon as you get home or be able to do it last minute (with all the stress)?
17. Would you rather live a day in the life of your main teacher or your worst enemy?
18. Would you rather have an amazing talent for a musical instrument or speak 5 languages fluently?
19. Would you rather have to explain a TikTok trend to your grandparents or watch an old black and white movie with them?
20. Would you rather get $100 right now or $1000 in one year?

• More questions to liven up the hallways (or the couch): Check the full list of Would You Rather questions for teens.

Would You Rather Questions for Kids

If you've got younger siblings, cousins, or if you babysit, this game is also a great way to keep them entertained and have a laugh together. You just need to adapt the questions to keep them simple, imaginative, and most importantly, fun!

20 questions for the little ones:

1. Would you rather fly like a bird or swim like a fish?
2. Would you rather eat only candy all day or only ice cream?
3. Would you rather have a dog that talks or a cat that's invisible?
4. Would you rather turn into a giant or a tiny little elf?
5. Would you rather live in a treehouse or a magic sandcastle?
6. Would you rather be able to jump super high or run super fast?
7. Would you rather have magic powers to make toys appear or make vegetables disappear?
8. Would you rather draw on the walls without getting told off or jump on the bed all day?
9. Would you rather meet Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy?
10. Would you rather have a magic wand or a flying carpet?
11. Would you rather only eat food that is your favorite color or only wear clothes that are your favorite color?
12. Would you rather be friends with a nice dragon or a funny unicorn?
13. Would you rather it rained chocolate or snowed marshmallows?
14. Would you rather play hide-and-seek in a huge house or have an obstacle course race in the garden?
15. Would you rather have superhero strength or be able to talk to animals?
16. Would you rather make giant soap bubbles or build the biggest LEGO castle in the world?
17. Would you rather travel to outer space or explore the bottom of the ocean?
18. Would you rather eat a sweet pizza or a savory cake?
19. Would you rather be allowed to stay up really late or eat candy before dinner?
20. Would you rather be the main character in your favorite cartoon or your favorite book?

• For hours of fun with the youngest: Find loads more Would You Rather questions for kids.

Tips for a Great Game? Advice for a Successful Round

"Would You Rather" is cool, but to keep things fun, here are a few quick tips:

1. Know your audience: Avoid super dirty questions with Grandma, or overly complex ones with little kids. Obvious, maybe, but worth saying!
2. No judgment: The goal is to have fun and learn stuff, not to judge other people's choices. Everyone has their preferences, even the weirdest ones! Let people choose without making (too much) fun of them.
3. Pace yourselves: Don't fire off questions too quickly. Give people time to think (a bit!), answer, and maybe explain their choice if the vibe is right.
4. Feel free to improvise: If an answer sparks a funny debate or a story, roll with it! The game is just an excuse to have a good time together.
5. Mix it up: Blend different types of questions (funny, serious, weird) to keep things interesting.

So there you have it, a solid foundation for launching some memorable "Would You Rather" sessions. Whether it's to break the ice, liven up a party, or just pass the time, it's a game that works almost every time. So, next time you're looking for an idea... you know what to do! Have fun!